Life can feel overwhelming even when you’re “doing all the things.” If you’re ready to move beyond constant stress, somatic tension, and patterns that keep you stuck, you’re in the right place.
I help adults and busy professionals - especially moms and highly motivated individuals - reduce anxiety, build resilience, and develop lasting tools for well-being, both in virtual sessions and in-person in Red Bank, NJ.
I blend evidence-based therapy with somatic and experiential techniques to help you feel grounded in your body as you explore thoughts, beliefs, and emotional patterns. This integrated approach — combining cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), nervous system regulation, and somatic awareness — supports transformation from the inside out. By learning both mental and body-based tools, you can finally feel relief instead of constant tension.
I specialize in working with adults experiencing:
• High-functioning anxiety
• Chronic stress and overwhelm
• Somatic tension and nervous system dysregulation
• Life transitions and identity shifts
• Challenges in self-worth or emotional connection
Whether you prefer the convenience of virtual therapy or the energy of in-person support, sessions are personalized to your goals and paced to your needs.
Virtual therapy offers flexibility for busy schedules - especially for clients juggling work, family, and life demands - while in-person sessions in Red Bank, NJ provide the grounding energy of face-to-face connection. Both formats follow the same structure of safety, support, regulation tools, and actionable skills you can use daily
I’m delighted to offer a free, 15-minute consultation call to new clients to ensure we are the right fit before you book your first session.
Embark on a journey of recognizing your anxiety, integrating tools, and healing. Empower yourself to live the life you’ve always imagined, aligned with your true state of centeredness.
Release feelings of fear and begin to heal. Step into a life of empowerment and alignment, living beyond your wildest dreams and fulfilling your highest potential.
Share your brokenness, process what’s weighing you down, and allow healing. Harmony will prevail once your heart begins to heal.
Do you find yourself pondering existential questions like, “Will I ever heal?” and “Will I ever love again?”. I want you to know - you’re not alone. Download my guide, Heartbroken to Limitless, to begin your healing journey today with actionable tips and tools I bring into sessions.
My journey in self-expression began with modeling and acting in Manhattan as a child, but it was the early loss of one of my primary caregivers that sparked my love for writing as a coping skill. Experiential healing has been the central theme of my life ever since.
After graduating from Villanova University, I moved to Los Angeles as a “starving artist," but my life changed direction when I became a nanny for a little boy with Down Syndrome. This experience shifted my focus from acting to working with others, causing an unavoidable awareness.
In my 20s, I recognized I had a problem with alcohol and made the decision to become sober. This journey deepened my faith in a higher power. Raising four children has further expanded my trust in something greater. I returned to Northwestern University to earn my Master’s Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and am now a licensed therapist working with individuals in private practice. At the same time, I also earned my certification in life coaching where I expand clients into experiential healing.
If you’re ready to raise your consciousness and step into your true self, I would be delighted to work with you. You may use the link below to book a free consultation.
Have questions before diving in? Submit the contact form below or email me at shanley@shanleyokeefetherapy.com to get started.